Monday, January 30, 2012

Your smile.

I have to fall in love with your smile.  Totally separately from falling in love with you.
Plain and simple. I gotta love your smile.

It'd be nice if you loved my smile too.

Sunday, January 29, 2012

Forgiveness

Today I participated in a marriage and family class.
The topic discussed was forgiveness.

I need a spouse who can swallow his pride because my (and our) happiness is more important than his pride.

And I expect to do the same.  I will have to swallow my pride sometimes because my spouses happiness is more important to me than my pride and whatever I am "proud" of.

Attribute #2

I must be attracted to your social life.
It is a huge turn off when the things you choose to spend your time on are aimless and unfulfilling.

I am a pretty easy going person, and I enjoy doing all sorts of things!
I am not sure exactly what I am referring to, but I just want to fit into your social scene.

It should become an "US" thing at some point. So both of our social lives needs to be appealing to one another.

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Attribute #1

Whoever I end up with I must be physically, emotionally, and sexually attracted to.
I will not let myself be with someone just "because it is practical"
I have to be irresistibly attracted to him, and him to me.

Friday, January 27, 2012

Lonely nights.

Well, Here I am on a Friday night wishing I had someone to cuddle up to and talk aimlessly about our days and kiss each other until our lips were numb. I don't know what got into me.
I JUST got out of a serious relationship and was convinced I did not want anything of the sort for quite some time.  However, my soul seeks companionship at this time.

So, I am in search of Mr. Right.  Not that I am going to jump into the first relationship that is put out on the table, But I am going to look for a guy that has all the qualities that I want in a man and I am going to pursue him.  Just because I got out of a relationship doesn't meant that I should pass up someone if they possess all the qualities that I want in a husband.

So here is my journey... The following you read is going to be my experiences, my thoughts, my realizations of what I really want and my discoveries of what I need.

All you men out there beware... Life has just turned into a game... or an interview :D